when I left the table my mom made a discussion between ehr and me that had no value or purpose 'cause she "felt" that I was being rude to her, as she always feels and I never do, so she came out with the usual speech, and when she said "your father doesn't talk to you about this anymore, 'cause we cannot change you, do you want me to stop talking to you?", my little inner-self was jumpunt and screaming YES!!!!111 out loud, I luckily was able to calm down, for respect. The interesting is that we both agree the same thing (although I didn't told her, for respect) "you're way too old for making us put you in the right way, you shoukld have your own criteria now by now" that my chriteria and my personallity isn't her dream of a child (as my little brotha is) doesn't mean that I've got no chriteria, but still, she shouldn't try to get me in her own right way, i'm in my own right way... no, there's no right way.